My wife, Susan, and I have children, both of whom are in college. Our son, Eric, is in his first year at UND in Grand Forks, ND and our daughter is a senior a Luther College. Both are doing well in college and love their life and studies in college. I am so happy that they've both found a match or fit in their college. This is the joy I am experiencing as a parent.
The challenge and unexpectedly hard road for me is not having them at home. Like many parents of high school age children, our home was buzzing with activities. There were school events, sporting events, music events, vacations, outings, etc. And, now, it is quiet. Too quiet. Unsettling quiet.
While my wife did double fist-pumps in the air when our children moved away to college (she does all the laundry), I cried. Tears of grief mingled with tears of joy that they were heading off into a new life.
I realize some of you will be sympathetic to my transition issues. Others of you may be mumbling, "Well, just get over it and move! Celebrate you time now as empty nesters!
God calls us in a special way as parents. We are called to model the Christian faith for our children. Called to raise them to love the Lord our God. We are to set a good example and teach them the ways of life and this world. We are called to love them through all the ups and downs of life.
I guess I am going to have to deepen my level of trust in God during this time of transitioning as a parent. I've feel like I am starting to turn the corner and enjoying more time with Susan and more free time. Yes, part of me feels guilty (I am a Lutheran!), but most of my heart is at peace with God and the new opportunities that await.
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